Last night, H brought up the T topic. He said that he's been reading about side effects, and he's terrified that he's going to grow boobs and that his balls will shrink, and that it might not be reversable by going off T. He's also concerned about transferring the T to me and the baby. I told him there is a patch option. I wasn't sure about the side effects since I haven't gotten to that part of my T book yet.
He is extremely reluctant, but he said he would make the call and talk to the professionals about it.