{{{Pearl}}}} I think it's good you know from snooping..as a general rule, it doesn't always help, but in your case, in the decision making process, I think it's good to know what's really going on..
Sigh...I hate that this is going this way for you and I know this stinks like crazy..and I think you are doing a magnificent job of handling it all my sweetie!
Tawnya
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