Thanks FIB,

I just received a call from her. Our income taxes came in direct deposited in the joint account. She called wondering why I had not taken the money out yet. I admit I was putting it off to avoid confilct. She wanted me to take less than half to cover some bills that were paid by her.

I told her camly but in a firm tone that I also had bills of ours to pay that she wasn't even considering.

"Well this is what I get for trying to be nice." She began to try and twist things around to make it sound like I was robbing her blind.

In the end, she said "just go withdraw your money, I don't know why your acting this way." I said okay, goodbye.


Don't stand still.