trapt..hang in. After 3 years post bomb, I wake up occasionally and still wonder how I got here. There aren't many pictures of us left up on the wall anymore. The last few are on one mutlti-picture frame and they are pix of us in Europe when I took her there for her 30th birthday more than 10 years ago. I'll still even have a cold sweat bad dream. But..it gets less as time goes on.

It's normal, I think....to feel those 'disconnect' days. After all, WE were the ones who knew we could go the distance.

I'm sorry that you....me...all of us...are going thru this..still....after being here this long. But..we must turn it into a positive. I think you are doing that. The proverbial lemonade from lemons.

Do what you can to make this over with so you can go on with your life but don't compromise those issues that you are sure, as a man, are important to you. I kid around when I say, "just give me the flat panel and I'm fine."

This was her choice. Stay strong.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;