Maybe I should be in piecing part 6?

[Hope4us]

Thanks Sara. Yes, I've asked W 3 times to go to Retro and she's refused each time. "I don't believe in that stuff".

Just like she refuses to read any books, just like she refuses to talk about the A and how it happened and what my contribution was to how our marriage got to the place where it could happen.

She's just one of those people who thinks "it's either there or it isn't" and once it's gone, she feels like there's no use in trying because it won't come back.

I need to quit talking now because I had a pretty nasty trigger last night and I don't want to say something that I'll regret with the mood I'm in.

Going to be a busy day at work, which is good, so I'll check in later.