he just texed again a lot of rubbish about the joiner which I already knew.

Think he is manipulating. Should I just ignore, he knows when counselling is and I already told him I was going so he knows.

My god, this is crazy that I'm talking about my H here.

Lawyer is £250 per hour. I can't afford that. He is bloody loaded too

H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids