Sitting here and reading back through the last few posts, there are 2 ways I can see your going.
1. Follow Gucci and Puppy with their wise DB words and ways 2. Forget all about snooping, catching out etc and just drop it
Which way you want to go is entirely up to you. If it's No.2, then there is absolutely no point is trying to score the final point before walking. You KNOW what is happening, so you can just walk with a swing in your stride and go off into the sunset already. Making further waves in your emotions is totally unecessary.
No.1, well that's where I have to leave it with the 2 maestros that are guiding you.
I have used DB to heal me, it was NEVER going to work for my M, I knew that, but the principles are so sound that they have rebuilt ME. You are/were doing the same. Think carefully Pearl, very carefully, 2 years, 5 years, 10 years...where do YOU want to be?
