Let it happen. It's his mess, he will have to deal with it. She will probably get out a lot of the venom that is building up inside her. Let him take the brunt of it. He needs to see what his actions do to the people he cares about.
Couldn't say it better, why would you want to fix his doing? I've had some great advice over the past 12 years and the number one point made is never bad mouth the other parent. The kids will draw their own conclusions no matter how you might try and spin it.
Be the consistant one!!!
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