I agree, don't try to figure out if you will take him back just for the kids. and besides, remember that love is a choice. He may not have those ooowie goowie feelings... but it's the choice to make a commitment to love, and when you start giving that love out, is when you start to feel love for a person.

does that make sense?

and I am bummed too about F. but your right, she did get a lot of publicity because of what happened... and who knows what Paula may do? perhaps pull some strings for a record deal???

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."