Well D28 talked to H about 1/2 hour today. H is upset about D15 refusal to see him. Did not expect this, worried about her, did not want me to have to raise her myself. Wants to be part of her life (as in part-time????) blah blah blah. D28 did tell him that he needed to step up to the plate and do his part. Why hasn't he called her teachers, school, counselor etc. What is he doing to be proactive? (nothing except whining poor me - )
H told D28 he was going to see D15 even if she was not talking to him. He bought her a St. Patrick Day card (after totally blowing it for Val Day and not giving her a gift which he has done since she was born) and said he was going to bring it over to her and sit with her even if D15 does not say a word.
How do I handle this? I know D15 will blow up if H just makes an appearance here and I don't want to mention it to her in case he doesn't. As usual H does not want to do any of the "real work" of trying to meet D15 ENs. Only his own. What should I do?
Last edited by hope3343; 03/10/0905:20 AM.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
