Just think about what you are doing next. Why think about what they are up to? Isn't that their point? DA girls/guys.... separation is about you living your life and the other S living their life apart from each other. If you are going to think about them and react to every word, text, message, contact, why are you separated? Anyone for resuming life before separation? I didn't think so.... let it all go. Focus....focus ...focus... beaches and ski mounts, and all. Take the time, use it wisely and move forward.