- I had an A 4 yrs ago - Stopped immediately it was discovered. - lied about it for while - Told truth - H moved in and out of house - H moved out to new apartment mid 2008 - H has OW immediately - not sure of extent of involvement or ommitment - I have never questioned this OW - H does horrible things to this family in throwing this OW in our faces and home and lives. His kids ahve called him out. i have not. - H is slowly squeezing me financially as he dismantles assets. - Although nothing to major , he has started and i will block it. - Says he may come home eventually - Do I sit and wait and see what he does next. - Do I start proceedings myself - Have i missed a step in not confronting - I have not been angry in 3 years which is 180 for me. - i am so confused - i have been almost pitch black since xmas
