To the mother ship: WHEN DO I GET MY HUSBAND BACK?

[NNP1965]

Thanks fpr typing that out TCBTE, I needed to read this tonight.

[Sanderika]

Hello TCBTE,

You have written my exact same thoughts....Thank you!!

Please find comfort knowing you are not alone....

It's really hard to be alone and feeling the loss. I too wish I had made better choices and been more grateful and loving for the wonderful H and marriage I had. I too took it all for granted. I am not responsible for H's OW and the choices he continues to make. I have huge regrets, but I don't deserve what is happening to me. I too want to find happiness again, I am not sure I could have another relationship either. One thing for certain though is this situation has taught me a world lessons I would not otherwise had the opportunity to experience.
For that alone I am a better person. Perhaps a long time from now I will want someone in my life, I am certainly not going to rush it.....

You know, one glass of wine won't hurt ya!!!!!!

After a "day in our life" a little wine helps to relax the soul, it's ok to partake a glass, enjoy the relaxation, you've earned it.

Like one of my best friends say "Make It a Good Day", take care...

Sanderika