It seems he doesn't realize that looking to others for happiness won't work.
Why was I the one that made him unhappy?
And now that he has moved out and is having an affair, why is he still unhappy?
He needs to learn that he has to look to himself and to God for happiness. I don't want to be in a marriage where I am responsible for his happiness. That will be like fighting a losing battle and I'm not up for it.
I wonder when he will figure this out.
I certainly do not want to tell him; I am too "motherly" already.
Just some of my thoughts for the evening.
M:36 H:36 M 3 Y T 8 Y No kids Bomb 6/30/08 PA I filed 9/29/09 D final 1/22/2010
