We have made it to the other side 4

[Treese]

YR....YES YES!!!
My D16 and my H were so close...as she says, "we were the type of family who would never let anyone hurt anyone of us", an all for one kind of family.

Keep up with my thread cause I'm going to post what my daughter had written for an interview for a retreat....

H was just here dropping son off after baseball...can't believe he even picked him up...D16 and I were in the kitchen eating and H kind of stood in the hallway, so he couldn't see D16..how awkward was that...then he peeked in the kitchen and said hi to her, she never lifted her head but I think I heard a faint Hi....then she went to her room...H didnt say goodbye to her...it's got to be killing him....or I would hope it is...

Anyhow he left...we were texting about s11 and I asked him if I looked old, he said, "no, but I feel it"...I said, "so do I sometimes but pretty soon we'll be grandparents then we'll feel old", and he said, "doesnt she want to get a job first"...talking about D22...I said, "of course, I was just talking out loud, she is smart, takes after me, :)...he responed, "True".....that was the end of that...I let it go...

I feel good tonight...like I'm turning a corner...H looked at me in the eye several times....I see sadness in his eyes...and I feel sorry for him...he's missing so much...from a person who dedicated his life to his kids, he is missing out...but not my problem...

Anyhow, as always thanks for being my DB mom....love ya...Treese