Maybe God is making things happen now and thats why things are falling apart for her. It could really be him working on it.
I wouldn't file yet. Give it more time and see what God does.
Keep staying dark.
And nothing wrong with writing on paper. I type things all the time in notepad on my computer that I want to send, but never do. I think sometimes it just helps to get those thoughts out. But then when you step away and think, you realize, better not to send it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...