The thing is, you guys are probably right...but I was such a d!ck for so long, that I am way too gun shy about showing any negative emotion towards her and anything she may have done to piss me off....and trust me, I am not being a doormat. My wife is not perfect, but it is rare that she does anything so bad that it raises my temp any more..except for the sitch that is.
I will show it around her and trust me, I have a temper that I am still learning to control, but I guess she could probably get away with murder at this point and I wouldn't say sh!t....not good, I know.
The thing with the guys at the house is, she really is just that naive to think that it was not that big a deal...best friend comes over and best friend being who she is, next thing she knows there are 4 dudes in the house....but, knowing me and the way I was in the past..just maybe I would be pissed about it....it doesn't look cool, let me give him a heads up....all very innocent.
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Just keep chip, chip, chipping away. Eventually you guys will be 60 and she will look up and say huh, we've been living together, wango tango-ing together, drinking together. I guess we could stay married.
That talk the other night and some of her comments honestly made me feel like I could have done some chipping away....and maybe she just doesn't realize it yet??
It still blows my mind that she told me we had become best friends over the past year...and we weren't before. Did she even hear herself say it and does she understand the gravity of it, relative to the sitch we are in now?
