It sucks to be me!!! #58

[mishka422]

((((((((Kalni)))))))))))

I've been reading and re-reading and can't figure out WTF your H is all about. His R with OW is driving him. He wanted his family because it was comfortable but he is not comfortable with you. You are obviously a passionate, loving woman who gives her all in everything. He seems to be eclipsed by your sunshine because he is weak and spineless. He becomes aggressive with you because he is frustrated with his own weak nature, not because of what you are saying.

Maria, I know you said you are done. I don't blame you one bit. Your H did and said nearly what mine did with the exception of the bit about OW being a friend. He knew better than to pull that with me since I had proof. We are better women without feeling like we have to give ourselves up entirely just to soothe the battered feelings of a man who can't treat us with love and respect. Simple....no. Relieving.....YES!

Get back to you K. Back to the woman you had made yourself into before H came back. Back to the strong, vibrant, wonderful woman you are!!!!!

I have tons of respect for you Maria. You were able to voice your feelings to him even without getting anything in response. Good for you. You won't have regrets for the rest of your life wishing you had 'only said this or that'.