So you know what, I think what break is saying, is it's completely OK to be and say your mad about something. One can be mad and NOT be a d!ck at the same time. I would have been mad about guys at my house but there is a way to say you are not happy about something, and there is no crime to being unhappy about something, expressing it in a way that doesn't make you the As$ is the trick. It took me a while to learn not to be a pecker. I suspect I am still learning.
Just keep chip, chip, chipping away. Eventually you guys will be 60 and she will look up and say huh, we've been living together, wango tango-ing together, drinking together. I guess we could stay married.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted