You sound like you have made some big strides in the past couple of weeks. Good for you! I'm so proud.
Take care of YOU and I'll visit again soon.
Aww thanks MIP I appreciate the kind words! and dont beat yourself up. I have made plenty of mistakes, and I still get emotional too. Its only natural and my C encourages me to feel the feelings and not ignore them, so in a way its part of your healing. It is a grieving process that is for sure!
Originally Posted By: still hopeful
I've been where you are. I'm remarried to her, so I know there is hope...but it was just being open to possibility of reconciliation, without actually expecting it
Thank you for sharing this with me. You are right- letting go doesn't mean that I do not care anymore. I will always feel open to reconciliation. I know it would take alot of work. Right now H still doesn't think he contributed anything negative into this M, so maybe once he gets over himself we could discover what went wrong we could go somewhere. For now though, I am happy that I am setting goals for myself and that I am able to make it through a day without completely losing it
[/quote]This is a quote from Phoenixdeux to me on my thread. Do you anticipate still being open to the possibility...? All is not lost because the D is final. [/quote]
Thank you! That is very helpful, I am glad you shared that with me
