Rob, you are killing me here!!! Really! OMG! After a year of crucifying myself about ANYTHING and EVERYTHING you are telling me I should stop and examine my wrong doings? Sure, lets do it again ... I gained probably 6 pounds since my wedding day I gave birth to 2 kids and was everyday working 9-5 and then was alone with 2 babies until 11 everynight I wanted to ML to my husband I wanted trips/weekends/movies/fun, laughter I wanted to hear compliments about my cooking, my body, my eyes, my taste, my administration skills, my shrink skills used on his family, my friends' skills that kept our friends close to us, etc etc etc I got tired and resentful I got NOTHING and still begged for anything of the above I DIDNT CHEAT!!!!! I DIDNT LEAVE HIM! I had a lonely life.
Tonight it is over. We talked and he said he has nothing to say. he said I cant make him say anything. He was aggressive and said my interference with his life has to stop.He said they are still friends. I told him to ask his friend to reassure me. If she is such a good friend then why not? He said no, he didn't want to drag her into this. I told him I am done. I cant do it. I give up. He is not my husband. He is a monster. I am done. K
