A New Decade

[MsMelancoly]

Hey Sanderika, Thanks for the quick reply. You posed many good questions for me to think about. With the financial disclosure paperwork my H already knows what money I have. In the maritial agreement he is agreeing to everything I proposed (I keep all my assets & he keeps his few assets & all his debt). He doesn't even want some of the things he bought during our marriage and said I could keep the engagement ring. (Which was pretty much custom made & doesn't look like an engagement/wedding ring anyway. But then I chose the design).

One of the reasons he gave when he left was basically to pay off his debts. That meaning, I suppose meant by himself. For his self esteem & ego, I suppose he does need to handle this himself. I would guess he would feel grateful and yet feel guilty. Another pattern I need to break - I suppose.