SS, for what it's worth, I don't think you did anything wrong here. Hey, I always say sometimes we LBS are so hard on ourselves and question what we do tremendously and our WAS have done much more dreadful things to us. I know we know better and should do better, but we also need to not worry so much at times (myself included- I worry way too much about hurting my H's feelings, when he has done... well you know).
