Has anyone out there ever reconciled with a spouse who became instantly distant and non-interested in your life?
Don't do this. I did this...most of us did this. It's a waste of time.
Don't measure your willingness to work on your R against the success/failures of others.
While many (MANY!) situations have a LOT in common, no two are the same. No other R is the same as your R.
This site contains a wealth of information, but no one can give you a recipe for 100% success because it just doesn't exist. Don't get too caught up looking for answers to questions that cannot be answered.
Do your best with the tools you have available and forever know that you did so.
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation
