Thanks Puppy.....I thought of that....that maybe he feels like he is cheating on OW (if there is one!). I think there is. My gut says there is, but he denies. Sometimes I feel like I am going crazy because I WANT to believe he is telling the truth. I feel bad being suspicious....I am usually not that person!

Has anyone out there ever reconciled with a spouse who became instantly distant and non-interested in your life? I want to try to save my M but it all seems so one sided right now. I know the book says it may be that way and to be patient. That is hard! I even thought about calling a psychic. See...I am a bit crazy now!

Thanks everyone.........for listening..........