So, I was looking over my H's financial disclosure paperwork today. Really, I feel so bad for him. His expenses are pretty bare bone. With his monthly income & expenses he will be -$30 (or probably more) each month. Yesterday, I saw his checking balance was at -$18 on the paperwork. I didn't say anything, wonder if I should have ...... I woke up this morning still wondering that & feeling a bit guilty since I have money in savings & checking. I know, way back DBcoach Jody said no rescuing!! (Which was my pattern in the past, even when we were best friends). It's so hard not too, when really I still do care about him. Any thoughts out there??


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)