I have noticed all of this stuff for the past year, but haven't put my arms around it all at once.
H doesn't really have any close friends anymore.
H doesn't do anything (that I know of) that he enjoys on his own anymore. (works out of town M-F, makes it home mid-week for a few hours) (weekends are spent handling kids games, and whatever activities we have planned as a family/couple, if required)
H hasn't said he loves me since I stopped saying it to him (11/18/08), except in a card on our anniversary.
H doesn't seem to enjoy really anything except spending time as a family, or with the kids alone if they're doing something.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
