I'm proud of you. I think your H needs you to push him a little bit. And you do sound like you are pushing a little bit but not too much. I can understand how he fears that the docotor visits are just a hassle, etc. I would feel that way, too. HOWEVER...if the therapy works well (as it does for some men, I have heard many stories of men whose lives have immediately changed for the better), THEN he will find that it wasn't a hassle at all. If the therapy works well, you may find yourself with an H who is saying "I feel great! Why the heck didn't we do this years ago?!"
So ignore his look of depression about the hassle, and instead, visualize and imagine a happy, horny, manly husband who is coming to you with gratitude in his eyes for not giving up on him.
