Don't you think she gets that after the month of darkness? Or do you think that since you responded to her "niceness" last week you've given the wrong impression?
Exactly. I guess what I'm thinking is that I don't want to flip-flop like she does. What happened to me was that she quit going on dates, had a bunch of stuff happen to her, etc - and then starts being really friendly like the "old days" - I thought maybe things had broken off with OM. Especially when she didn't answer the getting-back-together question.
But, I'm going to follow my own advice - when she writes me a four-page letter like Pearl's BF, THEN it may be worth considering. Unfortunately, I may be in Pearl's boat - not sure what I want to do.
But the dark is definitely on! If she has something to say about it, THEN I'll tell her how I feel, but even then I can sum it up in one sentence.