K, I admire your spirit and goodness! Please remember the following when you do work:
- Focus 100% on the work YOU have to do, not even 1% on what H has to do - that's his BIG problem. Take the log out of your own eye first
- DO NOT ever use the D word again. Its hurtful and makes him insecure.
- DO NOT bring up the OW again. It's must be over and done with. If H goes back to the OW he's toast!
- Its good that you now know what ails your H - insecurity and fear of rejection. You must work to reassure him and build him up to lead you once again.
- Put your trust in God since you believe in God.
What call do I have to tell you all this? Because I have suffered with you and I continue to suffer bigger things and I want you to be prevail.
