Personally, I think you did the right thing about letting your D stay with your wife. I understand your concerns about her safety, but you can only control the situation to an certain extent. Everything you have said about your D indicates that she has a good head on her shoulders and is trying to follow God's instruction in her life. Hopefully she will be strong enough to maintain her walk while living with her mom part of the time. Maybe her devotion to Christ will remind her mom of her need to do the same.
I know it's hard to war against your own nature and hold back your opinions. I have the same trouble. My mouth gets me in a lot of trouble!
Have a fab day!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!