Originally Posted By: missmyfriend
I am taking the advice of a person who I consider very much my mentor when it comes to faith. He has been recommending the book Fireproof even if it has no impact on my W.


My WAW and I just watched it this weekend together. It took 2 nites as she couldn't stay awake to watch it all in 1 sitting.

She cried at the end and then got angry.

You can read the details in my latest thread.

Not sure if this is the normal affect it has on a WAW. I don't think it helped my cause.

Relative to putting the Love Dare book to practice, it sounded like I had done pretty much what was shown in the movie. I'm going to pick up the book even though my wife has decided that after 2 months of trying to find a reason to change her mind, she just doesn't think a relationship between us will ever work....

I think she's going through a mid-life crisis. I'm sure if she was happy in our marriage it would have been more workable, but she wasn't so it's not.

I'm really lost in what to do in my situation now.....


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13