I agree with Gucci. Especialy about the inviting her to dinner and _then_ telling her off for accepting a phone call. Conflicting messages to the max!
Accepting a call...from her boyfriend. This wasn't her Mom calling or something, this was the partner in her adulterous relationship.
Allowing this behavior in my presence is basically a form of passive acceptance.
I agree, and find it puzzling that this is even a tough one for anyone.
I can see it being a problem if I had flipped out and started hurling household items at her while screaming at her to "Get the #$#@ out of my house!!!"
But that isn't what happened.
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation