My only question is does a statement need to be made? Someone else on here point blank told their spouse: "I will not be your friend while you're in an affair."
Well, I did say something to that effect to xBF when I kicked him out. Told him that he was treating me with so much disrespect and if any of my other friends had done that I would cut ties with them immediately so he was lucky I was cutting him some slack for as long as I had.
But I haven't said anything else similar since then. Not sure that saying that now will matter to her. Don't you think she gets that after the month of darkness? Or do you think that since you responded to her "niceness" last week you've given the wrong impression?
I do advise my girlfriends to clearly state their intentions to guys because they won't pick up on the subtle clues. I think women are better at it so IMHO your W will know from your actions that you are not emotionally available to her and she for d@mn sure knows why.
Maintain the same attitude and behavior you had in Feb, it was/is working.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
