Need alot of advice

[Joeboy]

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[stillloveshim]

I think you should contact her soon, via email and let her know, "I never wanted to hurt anyone." And ask her about family night, and let her know how the kids behaved. More over, push the envelope, ask her to let the kids decide if there should be a family night.

[Joeboy]

What about the OM ?

[stillloveshim]

He really is irrelevant esp. since we have no idea if he's still around.
If he is, it won't be for long.

[Joeboy]

From your mouth to God's ear . I pray daily for the restoration of my marriage .

[stillloveshim]

Every day, slowly and carefully.
Ask her about family night....start there.

[Joeboy]

I will but I know the response . She is gone .

[stillloveshim]

Then bring her back.

[Joeboy]

Love your confidence . The greatest gift you can give someone is love . It hurts when it is no longer being returned or given elsewhere .

[stillloveshim]

No s**t Sherlock. So go get yours back. Create you plan of attack, of DBing, and get to it.