The ring is completely up to you. My H never wore a ring. He wears no jewelry and neither does his father. Not a big deal to me. But my rings are beautiful. I love them. They are my most favorite pieces of jewelry for sure. I stopped wearing my rings in front of H for a while. Then things got better and I forgot to take them off in front of him and he pulled back a bit, so I'm back to not wearing the rings in front of him. That was pretty good for me. Not in front of him, but the rest of the world, yes. But that is def. something for you to answer for you.
