WAW - Very confused and devestated - pt 4

[confusedinpa]

Don't know what to make of it, other than it's just her typical confusing "nice" fashion.

My wife copied me on an email she sent to all our contacts (she normally handles these types of things) where we had decided to cancel our home phone and just go with our cell phone (trying to cut back on some costs).

I waited about 10 minutes and forwarded an article I saw this morning regarding her company merging with another company just with the comment "You might have seen this already...."

She emailed back right away saying she got the announcement this morning but then asked me how my day was going.

I really want to respond how does she expect my day is going - my wants wants to leave and can't give our relationship another chance.

I also thought about just asking if she was planning on going to counseling tonite, but don't want to pressure her.

I know she's just being nice, but I would almost wish she would just be "mean". Thing is she doesn't seem to have a median. She is either really nice or can be really harsh when she is mean.

I tried to schedule time to talk to my DB coach, but couldn't get a time worked out till tomorrow. I'll have to call one of my friends...