I agree with Silva. You are a kind and giving person and that draws people to you. I have heard that about myself and the one down side to that is the flawed people are attracted to us and us to them. If you are like me you think you can 'fix' them...love them enough to get them through thier recovery. Doesn't work. They are the only ones that can do that work. We can be on the sideline cheering but not carry the load.

Sounds like you had some great me time. I am jealous!!!!

Hang in there Kass. I can see in your posts that you are growing so much and really questioning things. Me too. I think that is a good thing.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!