I guess I was thinking it would be the ole "let her miss me" plan.
See, right now, I think she wants to stay. I think she realizes she made a mistake and she does care about me, etc, but she just doesn't know how to get out of it. And because I'm playing along with her not dealing with it, what motivation does she have to change? I was thinking if I went dark for 4 days, that she'd get a little dose of what it would be like if I wasn't around. S16 and I off doing "manly" stuff while she sits home by herself.
Make sense, or am I way off?
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.