In desperate need of advice, separation looming!

[confusedinpa]

Sad09,

You situation is very similar to mine. A difference may be that my wife had actually filed for divorce.

She said she "tried" to find a reason to change her mind over the last 7 weeks, but last week decided that there wasn't one to be found and started to sleep in the spare bedroom. Now she is really pushing for separation as well - she wants to move out.

Last nite we had a very tough conversation as she said she feels that the relationship between us will never work. She sees that I've changed, but it's all physical (whatever that means) and she still feels that I am still not listening to her or respecting her as I haven't worked on how the custody agreement or the logistics of a separation.

You may want to take a look at my threads as I pretty much documented everyday. I reread it this weekend when she hit me with this stuff. I can see where I had backslides which then pushed her further away. Hopefully you can avoid making some of the same mistakes.

I still haven't given up in my situation, but it is getting bleak.

I am looking for some advice as well.