I will definitely do anything she asks me to do with the kids. We now have a schedule of when I am going home to be with them. Every Mon, Tue, Thur, Sat I will be home with the kids and her some I guess. Also Sun morning will usually go to church and I will do stuff with them for the day. When I am around her I will continue to detach and not pursue. I will just play with the kids and let her participate or not. This is still hard, but getting a little easier.
Another question. W doesn't wear her wedding ring anymore, just a band that she bought herself. Should I be wearing mine?