Maybe I should be in piecing part 6?

[Hope4us]

WDID, Sad thing is, I almost feel like I'm there already. I've almost had "the conversation" a number of times the last week.

But I do have a plan. Continue to have these great weekends, try to get her to open up more and more, continue to call her on her "attitude" when she has them with me. Easter weekend, S16, my brother and I are going to the U.P. of Mich for 4 days. Not going to contact her the whole time we're gone. Cell coverage is spotty up there . A month later, our trip to Disney where I know we'll connect. And then see if she changes again when we come home from the trip. If she does, that's when I'll have the talk.

And when that talk happens, it's not like I'm leaving that day. I'll still have to wait until my transfer comes through, so part of that talk will be that I don't know what's going on with her, but something is different when she's at work and I suspect it's continued contact with OM and if it's not that it's EGF and if it's not that it's something going on with her when she's at work that's holding her back and I'm done trying and if she wants to try to make it work she's going to have to be the one to show me and give me what I need since this whole thing has been about her, including this so called recovery that we've been in.

I understand completely what you're saying about it coming up often. Last night we were watching Desperate Housewives and one of the Housewives confronted another lady that was having an A with her H's boss. There was a lot said that hit the nail right on the head and I know it had to have an affect on my W. I guess, by giving her another couple months I'm hoping she more and more gets through this. I know many people here say I should confront right now, but I've got it laid out how I want it and when I've got a goal in sight, like the trip in a couple months, I can continue with the PMA and GAL and we'll see where it goes.

Thanks for the insight WDID. You're the best.