Dr. and JB
Good morning!
I agree with the good Dr. We need to hope for what we need as opposed to what we want. "You don't always get what you want....but sometimes you get what you need." Not a huge fan but do love that song. It's weird how songs you heard years ago and had not one attachment too becomes poiginant later.
I also did something against the DB rules. I moved out. But for me, it was the right thing. It made my H realize "Oh crap, what if she moves on?" He's around more than ever now and has even really talked to me about his unhappiness and why he left.
JB--have you asked about Family Night?