Waffles anyone?

[Punktmann]

Gman, hey bro, how's things? Good here, bills suck here too. Aaaarrghh.

Anyway, email out.

Breton, great to hear from you even if it's not my thread, I'll look up your thread this weekend.

I loved this!

You know, even if it is not MLC, I do think that a big part of what makes the A appealing is that it is not real. There isn't as much of an issue with, say, dirty socks on the floor. You hang around for a while and leave.

Marriage involves bills and dirty socks and a lot of the familiar. and familiarity breeds contempt.

Every once in a while someone puts a gigantic emotional ball of crap succinctly into a couple of precise words. Excellent description!

Oh, and familiarity DOES breed contempt, just like a lack of respect destroys the ability to like or love someone.

I guess that's what the 180's are all about. Rebuilding respect gives us the foundation for them to come back.

[Gman3388]

Good to talk to ya Punk!
Saturday night W goes out with Cousins on one of their "cousins night out" I don't hear from her all night...nothing new.
10:30 she comes rolling in looking like she's still lit and like she got hit by a mack truck.
I ask her about her phone being off and she apologizes.
I'm not happy but I'm not overly PO'd. I ask her where she spent the night knowing full well what the answer is going to be.
She says its where I think...meaning OM.
I glare at her and shake my head and go back to watching TV.
I know its useless to fight or even get PO'd cause it wont get me anywhere except to raise my blood pressure.
Surprisingly I'm dealing with it very well.
I expected her not to come home last night.
I'm leaving it up to God.

So the rest of the day we make small talk but I wont even look at her. My answers are kind but short.
I had fun interactions with the kids, but I pretty much ignored her. Sure Id answer her but that's about it.
Later I made BBQ'd chicken so we could eat as a family.
She ate but not much.

[Gman3388]

Interesting.....
It seems W BF or bad friend was made a manager at the bar where W works a few weeks back.
Remember Spider man...
"absolute power corrupts absolutely"
I get a phone call Tuesday night from the W while she is at work.
It seems BF and W were having major disagreements to the point where Bf threatened to send W home because of her attitude.
W's complaint was that BF does NOTHING but sit on her fat Arse and feed her face. Wont wait on customers ect.
Its not the first time Ive heard this....

W said she was ready to quit. I told her go for it.
Then she changes her tune and says that she is going to talk to the owner and ask him to take her off of the nights they work together and this that and the other.
I asked her is she really going to do it or chicken out.
She says she is going to.
It seems to me that if she makes any kind of move out of that job she looses her enabler.
I really think that BF is one of the ones that "introduced the enemy" into w's life.
She looses BF, Job, etc and she looses her support mechanism.
W readily forgives BF outside of work...
"shes my best friend and I love her to death but she is worthless at work" yadda yadda yadda.

Its amazing what prayers can do

[Punktmann]

Gman, Yeah man, it's amazing what happens, even if it's an unseen method.

To the tune of "COPS"

Bad friend, bad friend, what you gonna do? what you gonna do when she dumps on you.....


That'll be in your head for at least a day now!!!


I'm praying for simpler things lately.

Esp. since I'm teaching my little ones to pray, keeping it simple!

Family, Hunger, Poverty, Sickness, & our soldiers.


That about covers it.


Easy weekend for me starting tomorrow afternoon bro. Text me when you can talk.

Best,

Punkt.

[Gman3388]

Gman, Yeah man, it's amazing what happens, even if it's an unseen method.

To the tune of "COPS"

Bad friend, bad friend, what you gonna do? what you gonna do when she dumps on you.....

LOL it was Punk!

Well we have had our good moments very few bad.
W actually came home from work Saturday evening AND STAYED HOME!
I was amazed.
Not much really to report about. I'm in good spirits and I intend on staying that way. She has had a few sleepless nights. I sometimes wonder whats going on in that mind of hers.