He also said that it felt like he was walking with a wooden stake driven through his heart for two years, and now it's gone!!
This is very telling. And eventhough it wasn't the reunion you dreamed about, OW is gone and H is living with YOU. This is the chance every LBS hopes for. You will need a lot of patience with H and dealing with your own feelings that may surface. Keep praying for guidance.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz