(((((Yoyo)))))

I can only commend you for your patience with your H. I am just so sorry he has proven to be completely unworthy of your love and good will. The things he's said ... just go beyond any sane response.

But you will be fine -- of that I am sure.


I just want to add one more thing in comment:

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2) H has not fired OW/Secretary which tells me that:
a) He values his business over his marriage/family.


This doesn't sound right to me -- I'm not sure how OW could be considered important to his business.

No, I'd say this would indicate he does not value either his business or his marriage/family. By carrying on this way, he is risking both, is he not?


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.