Try to resist the urge to run down the whole list for her. Just say things like "WE both know that's not true," or "Stop it -- we both know you're lying right now; it's very disrespectful" and leave it at that.
Don't raise your voice, don't get "into it" with her. Just enforce your boundaries, and move on.
I'm glad you said something to her. At some, deep level, I honestly think she is too.
