I am afraid I see red when I read the "He said he tried but he just doesn't have feelings for me."
Yeah, he really tried. He came round for booty calls whenever he felt like it....that really sounds like a man who doesn't have feelings. If he REALLY doesn't have feelings then he was a dog for doing that. You deserve more than a new SUV even if it has all the bells and whistles on it. He has treated you like an object he owns. He never liked it when he thought other guys were showing interest in you yet he would never commit himself.
At this moment in time I hold your H in very low regard. He should put that roadkill back on his head and go out and see what else he can pull. What a complete A$$ he has made of himself.
Yoyo, you go for what he owes you and your daughters. You have acted like the lady you are throughout all of this and he has shown what a complete dick head he is.
(((((HUGS))))))
You know Saffie, I have to look at this through others eyes. If this was a man doing this to one of my friends or heaven forbid one of my daughters I would think he was the scum of the earth. Honestly, I am ashamed that I have put up with it for so long. Therefore, I share very little with my nonvirtual friends. I know they would think I was crazy. I know I would and probably not want to have much to do with a person who has allowed a man to walk all over her like he has me.
As a matter of fact when we had our blowout in front of the OW I told him I prayed that our daughters never met a man like him. This did seem to play on his conscience some because that is when he hung is his head and apologized.
I want to apologize to all of my virtual friends on here for the spineless behavior I have exhibited. I also want to thank you all for giving me 2x4's and not shunning me. You all truly have been my lifeline.
I know overall that I have nothing to be ashamed of except being a doormat. I tried to hold my family together. He is the one who should be ashamed of himself, but I have a feeling there is no shame on his part.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
