I am afraid I see red when I read the "He said he tried but he just doesn't have feelings for me."
Yeah, he really tried. He came round for booty calls whenever he felt like it....that really sounds like a man who doesn't have feelings. If he REALLY doesn't have feelings then he was a dog for doing that. You deserve more than a new SUV even if it has all the bells and whistles on it. He has treated you like an object he owns. He never liked it when he thought other guys were showing interest in you yet he would never commit himself.
At this moment in time I hold your H in very low regard. He should put that roadkill back on his head and go out and see what else he can pull. What a complete A$$ he has made of himself.
Yoyo, you go for what he owes you and your daughters. You have acted like the lady you are throughout all of this and he has shown what a complete dick head he is.
(((((HUGS))))))
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength