Went to visit my BIL and his wife today after visiting my MIL yesterday. I have no problem talking with them about my situation. Of course I realize that they are going to defend my W's side but they also understand where I'm coming from. They said I didn't act the right way when I got bombed. They were telling me to give my W distance and I didn't listen. They are right. I made the same mistakes most other folks here did also by getting too clingy, insecure ect...They are more worried about our Ds coming thru this OK. They would like to see us stay together, but realize that decision isn't up to me. I'm lucky there is no animosity between us.
